A woman is a blessing of God. She is blessed with natural feelings of warmth, compassion & care. She will go every extra mile to create best for her family
She as a Mother or daughter or wife shall always keep family first before her. Hands folded in front of almighty shall always ask for health & wealth of family before her own desires.
And so the creator gave her this right to create. She gives birth to a soul feeling the same months before anyone sees the body. She feeds the soul with a part of her & forgoes her ambitions. Family dreams & fortunes are now her dreams.
While all this is is so true recently I have seen & experienced other side of this. I might be wrong but these are only my feelings & nothing to hurt others.
For this my small background. When I joined CA I was one of rare females. Travelling in crowded blue line buses to third class trains. Using toilet meant for Man as most offices did not have separate to taking on eve teasers on road coming back late at night after audits.
The blog will go very long so just bullets as food for thought for other perspective on my own gender
- Surprised these days a woman complaints of office harassment months & years after incidents. Raises serious doubts on credibility. Why not immediate??
- Use laws in her favour & section 49 A to manipulate in laws & partner & extract maximum benefits
- Eve teasing has been made a big issue. But I ask the woman brigade don't they admire guys & sometimes message them to be friends with them??
- A woman would dress up to be complimented by everyone including men ( most important). But if her husband compliments another lady then he is a casanova
- She shall want all space in her life & if the partner ask her questions he is termed as outdated. But if she does that then that's her right
- She will sacrifice her carrier & pleasures for her kids. But equally burden them later with emotional black mail & guilt. Poor child. When did he ask you to do all this for him?
- If a woman flirts with a man she is modern & liberated but if a man does the same he is shame on society.
- They will fast on their own will for long life & happiness of their husbands. But equally burden the poor guy for inconvenience she is feeling. Then why fast? Did he force you?
- She will claim equality but shall be quick to grab ladies seat in Metro or quota in jobs.
- Getting into live in relationships knowing consequences very well but then take up to law if the relationship fails. Was she forced at gunpoint for live in?
- Marital rape if woman not ready for the Act. What if it is other way round? If man doesn't want to? Does he have guts to say no. Or he will be dragged to court as impotent.
Wake up such liberated women. Liberation is in mind not on media. When you are doing things for your family they are for your happiness not their
Didn't you feel happy holding your new born. To be around him. Seeing him grow up. His smiles experiencing his heart beat.
But then try to claim ownership on their better half & children is uncalled for. Let this relationship be unconditional. Stop burdening your children with guilt if they decide to fly away from your nest.
Please stop emotional & mental torture of your partners in name of possessiveness & love. Trust them. Let not your insecurities make them run away from you.
Is there any point that your partner is physically with you but emotionally with someone else. How beautiful it will be if it is other way round
Stop looking for short term fame by going to media on small issues. Fight for yourself. If you consider yourself equal then prove it
Consider your kids as souls you got into this world. Let them decide their journey. Just be their guide & mentor. Someone they can look up to. No conditions imposed.
These are my thoughts & nothing to demean anyone.
I love myself to be born as woman.